There is no substitution it. You must forgive to start over clear and clean from the inside out. Do you know that we drag our past around with us all our lives if we don’t work on forgiveness? I think that I have a great heart but I’m being transparent
I’m having a problem in this area that only God can help me with. Sometimes we know that we haven’t forgiven but because the offenses were so grave but that is not the problem. We have to understand that it’s for us and not for the
Christ offers for forgiveness for everyone everywhere shirt. They’re not worth it but we are. more info later. This is an important paradigm shift from the deeply programmed belief/behavior of we must always forgive regardless of the offense.
This belief/behavior is part of the conditioning we receive from early on via family, religion, and society. Toxic people know this and use it as a tool of leverage as a means to keep you in their game. The distinction that Dr.
Campbell is establishing is out of self-love, self-respect and self-protection, we need to drop the conditioning that forgiveness must ALWAYS be granted.
I too believe that (in many cases) when we forgive,