And if all else fails, give yourself a pass. This is an incredibly difficult time, and what I’ve come to accept is when things are hard, it is important to maintain low expectations of yourself and others. If you can’t deal, feel free to put on The Crown, get under a cozy blanket, and Netflix and chill your way through the Kaffee redet nicht kaffee jammert nicht kaffee macht einfach seinen job ich mag kaffee shirt holidays. Do whatever you need to do to be OK. This is one of the most important things I’ve learned from my losses: Prioritizing self-care is sometimes the best tradition we can gift ourselves.